I'll keep this one short and sweet for ya.
Here's the first 2 steps you want to take to improve any relationship:
1. Move toward, not away
Sometimes our impulse in a challenging relationship is to pull back, dig in our heels, and wait for the other person to “make the first move.” YOU make the first move.
2. Warm their heart
Only you know this person (especially if it's your spouse) enough to know what will warm their heart. What they'll appreciate. What will get them receptive to the next steps for improvement.
Hey! I'll give you an hour of my life to help you transform yours! Pretty cool, right? You can email me and we'll set something up.