Instead of asking “WHY ME?” ask “WHAT NOW?”
WHY ME = Victim Mentality
WHAT NOW = Empowerment
Why me? is a very easy question for our brains to go to when something we don't like happens in our lives. But it's victim mentality. Truly, you won't find a satisfying answer.
What now? Now that's a great question. It puts your mind to work to figure out solutions and next steps. It takes you out of victim mentality and into empowerment.
You are not in control of your life, but you can take control of yourself.