3 secrets for absolute balance in life

It took me SIX years to get out of the cycle of feeling like I was running on a hamster wheel, trying to do everything perfectly and ending up doing nothing well, chasing some kind of elusive “Supermom” that doesn't exist.

I don't want it to take you six years. I want it to take you 5 minutes.

It boils down to THREE key ingredients:

1) Manageable—Is it manageable? Will it stress me out?

2) Desirable—Do I want to do this? Will I enjoy this?

3) Will make me a better wife and mother—Will it enhance my mothering or my wifing? (I think I just made up a word.)

If YES, then I can take it on.

If NO, then I have to re-evaluate and see how I can make it manageable, desirable, and enhance my family life.